BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

Welcome to BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko, where we talk about womanhood, self development and the journey to BECOMING the best version of HER.
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Join Selfish 30, Margarita’s 30-day challenge, now running again in DecemberIn this episode she answers your real questions on narcissists, porn, situationships, why he married someone else after 7 years, how to get your husband into conquering mode again, what to do when a man says he is unsure, and why after 13 years there is still no proposal. Plus updates on Selfish 30 and why December is your month to lock in. Chosen, Margarita’s best marriage tipsDetach - 3 Day IntensiveWrite to Dear Margarita and read Unfiltered with MargaritaBeing Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms. Love you lots like jelly tots xx See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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189: He married her in 5 months. He made you wait 7 years. Here's why.

Join Selfish 30, Margarita’s 30-day challenge, now running again in DecemberIn this episode she answers your real questions on narcissists, porn, situationships, why he married someone else after 7 years, how to get your husband into conquering mode again, what to do when a man says he is unsure, and why after 13 years there is still no proposal. Plus updates on Selfish 30 and why December is your month to lock in. Chosen, Margarita’s best marriage tipsDetach - 3 Day IntensiveWrite to Dear Margarita and read Unfiltered with MargaritaBeing Her is your no filter space for woman empowerment, relationship advice, confidence, feminine energy, and living life completely on your own terms. Love you lots like jelly tots xx See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

01 Nov 2026
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188: Your Life Won’t Change Until You Become More Selfish.

Join Selfish 30, Margarita’s 30-day challenge starting November 1stWelcome back to Being Her, where we are officially entering our selfish era. After years of talking about how to get over an ex, move from anxious to secure attachment, and create the life you want, Margarita has realised the answer to all of it is the same: become a little bit more selfish. Not selfish as in taking from others, but deliciously selfish, putting yourself at the centre of your own life and owning it. In this episode, Margarita explains why “decentring men” keeps you thinking about men, why being the good girl hasn’t made you happier or more valued, and how guilt conditioning keeps women convenient instead of unforgettable. She gets candid about her own people-pleasing, finally buying herself caviar, and the difference between being needed and being valued. She also reveals Selfish 30, her brand new 30-day challenge to help you stop delegating your life to others and actually start doing the behaviours of a woman who puts…

25 Oct 2026
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187: "Just Leave Him" Is the Laziest Relationship Advice on the Internet

This week’s episode comes straight from the DMs: “Can you please make a video about your partner sleeping soundly while you are crying next to him?” It’s a message Margarita gets often, and one she lived herself in her twenties. The internet’s answer is usually just “leave him,” but Margarita argues that skips the most important part: understanding what is actually happening. In this episode, she breaks down the pursue-withdraw dynamic, why men and women experience conflict so differently, and how anxious and avoidant partners are both trying to feel safe in opposite ways. She gets candid about emotional sovereignty, rumination, and handing your emotional weather to someone else. She also explains how to tell a healthy break from stonewalling, emotional overwhelm from emotional punishment, and the one simple test that shows whether it really is time to leave him.In this episode: 1. Three separate reasons this could be happening and they are all different 2. The pursue withdraw dynamic and why it is so…

18 Oct 2026
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186: Stop Chasing. See What Happens When You Let Go.

Episode mentioned: The Bossticks with Margarita NazarenkoPeep the comments on the IG Reel that sparked this conversation Books mentioned:Unbothered by Margarita NazarenkoThe New Rules by Margarita NazarenkoTo learn more about Margarita Nazarenko, visit https://www.margaritanazarenko.comWelcome back to Being Her, where today it’s getting juicy, spicy and real life. Margarita is launching her new Substack, Unfiltered with Margarita, and using a viral moment from her recent appearance on The Bossticks to unpack why so many women feel burnt out, frazzled and in constant conflict with the people they love. When a clip about her husband forgetting the diapers in Las Vegas blew up online, the comment section revealed something bigger: women are carrying loads that were never theirs to carry. In this episode, Margarita breaks down the psychology of over-functioning, the difference between caring and controlling, and why stepping back and letting natural consequences play out can transform your relationships. She…

11 Oct 2026
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185: You Already Know What You Need to Do.

Join me in The Final Round of Unbothered WomanReceive emails from meYou already know what you need to do. You are just scared of what it is going to cost you.Margarita is back from her book tour in America, freshly moved into a half renovated house with two small children, and she has things to say.In this episode she shares the 10 mindset shifts that came up for her on the trip, the permissions she had to stop waiting for, and why the life you want is already inside you and has been the whole time.In this episode:1. You are probably not confused you are just scared of the consequences2. Stop collecting advice you already have the answer3. Distance tells you things proximity cannot4. Your next life requires disappointing someone from your current one5. Stop waiting to feel ready confidence only comes after evidence6. When you transform the old identity will fight back hard7. Stop making permanent decisions based on temporary emotions8. Your life changes when you stop negotiating with what you know9. There is…

04 Oct 2026