Self Obsessed

Tam Kaur 216 - 5 steps to Manifest Your Dream Partner in a Self-Obsessed Way

Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth. ‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions. So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.

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Self Obsessed

Episodes

5 steps to Manifest Your Dream Partner in a Self-Obsessed Way

watch this before you go back to school for confidence [pep talk]

watch this when you feel behind in life | comparison, self-doubt, and finding your own path

MID YEAR RESET 2026: the 1% plan to become unrecognisable in 6 months

mastering your self-concept is the answer to your desires

why are women getting dumber on purpose?

why undeserving people always seem to succeed

why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did

REALITY CHECK: why you still don't have the love you want

how to transform your life before summer (you have one month)

how to finally silence your inner critic (for the women who have already done the work)

how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life

why women who put themselves first win every time

how to ACTUALLY be yourself (when you've forgotten who that is)

the ULTIMATE guide to becoming your own version of an "it girl"

watch this when you want to give up

the ULTIMATE guide to fake friends | subtle signs to watch out for & friendship advice

8 harsh truths you need to hear to achieve REAL growth

GIRL TALK: juicy dating dilemmas, relationship & self-love advice (VALENTINES EDITION)

how to date once you realize you don't need a man

how to be self-obsessed | become confident, magnetic, and emotionally unbothered in 2026

REALITY CHECK: let 2026 be the year you become untouchable

10 “normal” habits that will secretly keep you stuck all 2026

the self-obsessed girl’s blueprint for january

how to rebrand for 2026 like the ceo of your empire

your 30 day glow up plan for 2026

2026 vision board that ACTUALLY works [2025 goals came true] | manifest tips, goals & becoming her

GIRL TALK Q&A: dating advice, friendship jealousy, self-worth & feeling behind in your 20s

how i became the woman of my dreams and how you can too

25 life lessons I learnt at 25 | self-care, success & the mindset glow-up that changed everything

how to find REAL HAPPINESS | stop burnout, people pleasing & quick dopamine

10 STEPS TO LOCK IN BEFORE 2026 | goal-setting, realigning, building habits & glow up secrets

how to heal your INNER CHILD & reinvent yourself | self love, trauma release + mindset shifts

the ULTIMATE back to school guide | mindset glow up, friendships, routines + study hacks

Obsessed With Manifesting | the easiest way to manifest your dream reality

the ULTIMATE guide to friendships | advice I WISH I knew earlier to build lasting friendships

how to MASTER self-love while dating | detachment, boundaries, & self-worth no one talks about

the 5 laws of self-obsession | how to build unshakable confidence & start choosing YOU

watch this when you're in a slump

relationship RED flags that are actually GREEN | 10 healthy dating signs every woman needs to know

it’s time YOU became the center of your own universe | detachment, inner peace & true confidence

MID YEAR RESET: you have 6 months LEFT to make 2025 the BEST year yet. This is how.

GIRL TALK Q&A: toxic friends, dating drama, healthy relationships, goals and self love [PART 7]

REALITY CHECK: Why Your Life Still Hasn’t Changed (Even After All Your Effort)

how to become UNRECOGNIZABLE by summer 2025 | daily habits, beauty hacks, mindset shifts & glow up

life is a movie & you’re the STAR so ACT like it | the ultimate guide to being the main character

the ULTIMATE energy protection guide | stop draining yourself & start aligning

10 lessons to LEVEL UP your 20s | mindset, self-growth & confidence tips

10 tips and habits to MASTER your mental health | break the cycle and start healing

S4 EP10: The 10 laws of self obsession | How to become self obsessed