Why Am I Still Single?

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Last week, Nkechi left my house. This week, she entered my bank account. First it was her younger brother. Then her mother. Then her grandmother. Every emergency came with tears, prayers, and an account number. Then a pastor prayed, a miracle happened, and somehow I became an investor in the Nigerian stock market. I did not ask for any of it. Meanwhile, an unknown number has been calling my phone since last night. I have a feeling I...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! I did something my friends and family begged me not to do. I thought it would help me find love faster. It did. Kind of. A stranger slid into my WhatsApp asking if I was the real Edgar. She was sweet. She was pretty. She said my podcast saved her life. Four days later, she was inside my house. And she was not leaving. My friends warned me. I insulted them. Now I owe three people an apology, and one of them is Cordelia. This is...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! This year, Nnamdi Agbo and I shared a stage in Waterside. Two men. More than 17 characters. 90 minutes. I thought I knew him. Then I sat him down and asked the one question we never rehearsed. Nnamdi, why are you still single? We talked about his career. We talked about relationships. We talked about who he is when the cameras go off. He had answers. I had follow-up questions. Why is Nnamdi ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! This year, Nnamdi Agbo and I shared a stage in Waterside. Two men. More than 17 characters. 90 minutes. I thought I knew him. Then I sat him down and asked the one question we never rehearsed. Nnamdi, why are you still single? We talked about his career. We talked about relationships. We talked about who he is when the cameras go off. He had answers. I had follow-up questions. Why is Nnamdi ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! I stopped to help a woman whose car broke down on the expressway. I raised the bonnet, knocked something with a stone, and diagnosed her car with a list of problems I completely made up on the spot. She believed me. What followed was one of the best days I have had in a long time. Until someone knocked on my door. One knock. One person. Five minutes. That was all it took to destroy everything. Why am I still single? Because Cordelia...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! I went to the cinema yesterday and missed my movie. So I joined the popcorn queue instead. And then someone tapped my shoulder. It was a woman I had spent five years looking for. A woman who, one random Tuesday in 2021, sent me a single text message that said "please do not call or text me anymore" and then disappeared completely. No fight. No argument. No explanation. Yesterday, sitting in a small coffee shop inside that mall, she ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! This is not a regular episode. I wouldn't even call it an episode. But you should listen to it. No montage. No theme music. No crazy sound effects. Just me, sitting in my wardrobe, talking to you about my problems. The reason I am in the wardrobe is a story for another day. Just know there is something under my bed that looks like a lizard crossed with a rat and a wall gecko, and I am not leaving this wardrobe until it is found. I n...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! I went to a party to find love. Lancelot invited me. He gave me four rules before we even stepped out of the car. Simple rules. Easy rules. Rules I had absolutely no business breaking. I broke three of them. What followed was the most chaotic night of my life. A truth or dare game that went completely off the rails. A slice of dark chocolate cake that looked completely innocent on that small plate. A girl I was not supposed to talk ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! I read an article this week about a man who spent 16 years raising children that were not his. The father of those children was his best friend. The same man he built a business with. The same man he trusted with his life. When I finished reading, I could not close my mouth for five minutes. But then I remembered I had my own story. My girlfriend. My best friend. My apartment. One night I came home exhausted from rehearsals, fell as...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! This week, Edgar wakes up to a marriage proposal happening right outside his window. Live band, a brand new car, a diamond ring, the whole thing. But the real story is not the proposal. It is what saved the relationship two years earlier, after a fight so bad the police got involved. One folded letter. No envelope. Just a few words that did what six years of conversation could not. That discovery sends Edgar to his desk, his pen, an...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! This is the final chapter of Tobi's Wedding. And I promised you everything, so that is exactly what you are getting. After everything you heard last week, the group chat, the spare tyre, and Chibuzor, I had a decision to make. And I made it. What followed was a confrontation, a phone call I should never have picked up, and a wedding I attended with a very specific plan and absolutely zero regrets. This episode is for everyone who ha...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! In this episode of Why Am I Still Single?, I want to tell you about an experiment. A four-month experiment. With a woman called Tobi. I did not ask Tobi out because I was in love. There were no butterflies. No sparks. Nothing like that. But everyone around us could see something we refused to see her friends, my friends, our families, and one completely useless Uber driver who had absolutely no business in our lives. So we agreed. F...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! In this deeply personal and completely unfiltered episode of Why Am I Still Single?, I take you inside a dream that has been following me since April 2022. Not a dream about success. Not a dream about love. A dream about a baby. My baby. A girl with my face and no teeth, crying in my arms, at a filling station, surrounded by bags of clothes, while I stand there confused and stranded, waiting for a ride that never comes.&...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! In this chaotic, deeply personal, and completely unfiltered episode of Why Am I Still Single?, I take you inside what was supposed to be a simple birthday celebration. Good food, good music, good people. A day to feel appreciated and loved. What I did not expect was betrayal. Friendship betrayal. The kind that makes you question why you even bother having friends in the first place. Because on the day I was suppose...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! In this hilarious, awkward, and absolutely chaotic episode of Why Am I Still Single?, I share the unbelievable story of how a simple Valentine's Day date turned into a 30-minute wardrobe nightmare. What was supposed to be a romantic home date with Netflix, jollof rice, and maybe even "the do" quickly spiralled into hiding like a criminal, facing a surprise law examination, and nearly getting caught by Nigerian parents who weren't su...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it's Check Edgar here! In this hilarious, chaotic, and entrepreneurial episode of Why Am I Still Single?, I share the unbelievable story of how I became Lagos's most unlikely Christmas delivery man. What was supposed to be a simple side hustle selling 50 chickens for Christmas quickly turned into house-to-house chaos, awkward encounters, and an unexpected marriage proposal. From customers who thought meeting me was part of the package to the Surulere woma...

Chat with Check Edgar What would you do if someone you once liked disappeared from your life… and then returned years later with a child calling you Dad? In this hilarious and chaotic episode of Why Am I Still Single?, Nigerian comedian and storyteller Check Edgar shares one of the wildest stories of his dating life. What started as a simple car accident in Lagos in 2021 turned into unexpected chemistry, weekend football dates, a sudden disappearance and an unbelievable return in 2023. This e...

Chat with Check Edgar This episode features my appearance on the So Nigerian Podcast, where we discuss the realities of being a Lagos bachelor—dating challenges, relationship dynamics, friendzone signals, awkward encounters, and the chaotic but hilarious world of love in Lagos. The conversation covers ideal Lagos dates, why people struggle to find love in the city, and whether cheating can ever be considered a “mistake.” I also share some of my funniest dating stories, unfiltered takes, and...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! In this hilarious, chaotic, and action-packed episode of Why Am I Still Single?, I share the unbelievable story of how a simple cinema date turned into a full Lagos blockbuster. What was supposed to be a cute Superman movie outing quickly escalated into loud laughter, flying popcorn, insults, threats, and three angry men waiting for me outside like final-boss villains. From my date calling me Black Superman… to a jealous stranger ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! In this hilarious yet shocking episode of Why Am I Still Single?, Edgar shares the unbelievable story of how a simple phone call turned him into a fake “Doctor Chris.” What started as a harmless mix-up quickly spiralled into confusion, heartbreak, and near-arrest levels of embarrassment! From phone therapy sessions to emotional misdiagnosis, Edgar finds himself tangled in the wildest romantic misunderstanding ever told on the ...

Chat with Check Edgar In this hilarious and chaotic episode of “Why Am I Still Single?”, Edgar takes us to a red cup party he had no business attending. What starts as a night of fake smiles, bad traffic, and Star Radler quickly turns into unexpected romance — and then a full-blown crime scene. After meeting a gorgeous lady named Niffy, everything seems perfect… until she asks Edgar to watch her phone while she goes to the restroom. Minutes later, the phone disappears — and somehow, Edgar bec...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here. Today’s episode is called “Mary Magdalene.” And no, not the one from the Bible… but close. This is the story of a woman who almost turned our first date into a full-blown deliverance service. From asking me whether God knows me, to pulling out a big leather Bible at a restaurant, to making me sit through fasting, Bible study, and a prayer that nearly called down fire on my jollof rice. Mary was unlike anyone I’d ever met...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! This episode starts with me in bed, dreaming of food because I’m fasting. Only for one loud Lagos bus horn to drag me back to reality. I look out the window, and boom… a moving truck. A new tenant. My dad did mention someone was coming, but I didn’t know it would be her. Her name is Ada. Pretty. Glasses. Smart. Funny. The kind of neighbour you immediately start planning fake landlord lines for in your head. I went down t...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another special episode of Why Am I Still Single? – and this one? This one is all about YOU, my amazing CheckMates! Today’s episode is titled TGIF 3, and it’s our way of celebrating the love, laughter, and support you’ve been giving this podcast. I’ll be diving into your funniest emails, wildest DMs, and most unexpected voice notes—you people never fail to shock me. Plus, I’ve got BIG announcements, fres...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another painfully honest episode of Why Am I Still Single? and this one? This one might just leave you staring at your ceiling at 2 a.m., thinking about the one that got away. Today’s episode is titled “T Junction”, but it’s not about cars or traffic. It’s about life, choices… and the kind of crossroads that can change everything. In this episode, I take you into the story of a woman who trusted me enough to t...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another painfully hilarious episode of Why Am I Still Single? and this one? This one will leave your heart in your mouth and your pride in the gutter. Today’s episode is titled “Friendzone” but not just any kind of friendzone. I’m talking about the kind where she cries on your chest… and then calls you her big brother. 😭 In this episode, I take you deep into the trenches of emotional warfare where ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another painfully hilarious episode of Why Am I Still Single? and this one? This one will make you side-eye every fork and knife in your kitchen drawer. Today’s episode is titled “Fork & Knife”, and it’s not just about cutlery. It’s about shame, class, and how turkey wings ruined my love life. In this episode, I walk you through the most awkward date I’ve ever had with a fine babe introduced to me by...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! In this explosive episode of Why Am I Still Single?, I take you back to 2020, the year I thought I was rising... until someone tried to ruin me with a sex tape I didn’t even know existed. It started with a DM. A guy claiming I slept with his girlfriend. Then he said he had footage. Then he asked for 1 million naira or he’d leak it. Now, here’s the twist, at the time, I was still a virgin. What followed was blackmail, fake tears, a d...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another mind-bending episode of Why Am I Still Single? and today, we’re entering the wild, deceptive world of Liars. This episode is titled "Lila the LION", and trust me, the name fits. I’m breaking down the four types of liars you’ll meet in the dating jungle: The White Lie (they lie for peace), The Black Lie (they lie for gain), The Linus (they lie out of fear) And the Lions (they lie to dominate and impress). ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! This episode? E go touch you. In Prom Queen, I take you back to secondary school — back when love was sweet, pride was loud, and Michael wore shoes that had light. This is the true story of how I thought I was in love with the finest girl in class, Tobi. She chose me. Took me to the secretary. Made me her prom date. But on the night of our school prom, something happened… something I’ve never forgotten. From ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another explosive and unforgettable episode of Why Am I Still Single? Today’s episode is titled Point and Kill, and no, it’s not about Fish… or an action film! In this wild story, a simple game night turns into chaos, betrayal, and a full-blown lounge fight involving heartbreak, jealousy, and one suspiciously fast slap from a random boyfriend. What started as harmless fun with friends quickly spiraled into a night I’ll n...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! First of all, I AM BACK!!! In this spicy and unforgettable episode of Why Am I Still Single?, Check Edgar shares the wild story of falling for an Oyinbo girl who turned his world upside down — and not in a good way. From expensive dates to unexpected "adult adventures," Edgar’s trip through love and culture shock shows exactly why Nigerian women will always be number one in his heart. What started with laughter, tattoos,...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of Why Am I Still Single?—and today, we’re diving into the treacherous world of long-distance relationships. Or as I like to call it, “How to Date Someone Who’s Always in Another Time Zone—Physically and Emotionally.” Once upon a wedding, I met someone special. Sparks flew, numbers were exchanged, and before I knew it, I was in a long-distance relationship. But apparently, my patience lasted lo...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of "Why Am I Still Single?" Today’s episode is titled TGIF 2, and it’s all about YOU—my amazing fans! (CheckMates). We are celebrating the 20th episode of the amazing podcast! I’ll be reading some of the incredible emails, messages, comments, and DMs I’ve received from you. Plus, I’ve got some exciting announcements and even bigger giveaways lined up. Do you have what it takes to win a date with your...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of Why Am I Still Single?—and today, we’re wrapping up 2024 in the most dramatic way possible. Yes, I know—it’s coming late. But in my defense, so is my love life. This year? A full-blown movie. A thriller, a comedy, and, at times, a psychological horror. I laughed, I cried, I made questionable life choices—but most importantly, I remained single. Again. In this episode, I’ll break down my 2024 goals—what ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of Why Am I Still Single?—and today, we’re diving into Valentine’s Day trauma. For years, my Valentine’s gift exchange was nothing short of a national embarrassment. While other guys were getting PS5s, designer perfumes, and surprise trips, my love life felt like a cruel social experiment. My gifts? A pack of Cabin biscuits (yes, dry biscuits with no drink), a tube of toothpaste (was she hintin...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another hilarious and heartfelt episode of Why Am I Still Single? Today’s episode is titled Silent Night, Lonely Night, and trust me, this one will leave you laughing, reminiscing, and maybe even tearing up just a little. In this special Christmas episode, I dive into the reality of what happens when the holiday spirit turns into holiday drama. Remember those childhood Christmases full of magic and endless fun? Yeah...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another wild and hilarious episode of Why Am I Still Single? Today’s episode is titled The Gold Circle, and it’s a ride filled with glitz, glamour, and one very suspicious “business mogul” named Vanessa. This story begins with a DM that wasn’t exactly flattering—Vanessa insulted my voice, but somehow, that turned into a conversation. Before I knew it, she was offering to manage my career. Vanessa wasn’t just c...

Chat with Check Edgar It’s been a minute, I know—and this episode might not even stay up for long, so listen while you can! I’m spilling the tea on why I’ve been MIA, including the chaos of juggling a new job, planning a tour, and, yes, even delivering fowl for my mom (don’t ask). I’m also giving you a sneak peek into 2025: new episodes, exclusive content, and exciting projects like the Checkedgar website, two limited podcast series (Disclosure and Blue Roses), and fresh blogs (In Other News ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another heartwarming episode of Why Am I Still Single? Today’s episode is titled Breakfast in Bed, and it’s one for the books—a blend of romance, heartbreak, and some hard-to-swallow truths. In this episode, I take you back to 2017, to a friend’s party where a random game of Truth or Dare led me to meet Fola, the woman who would redefine what love—and betrayal—meant to me. What started with me begging her for her...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of Why Am I Still Single? Today’s episode is called Vision and Dreams, and believe me, this one’s a wild mix of romance, mystery, and a few spine-chilling revelations. In this episode, I’m sharing the story of how a routine bus ride turned into an unforgettable experience with Vee, a woman whose mesmerizing eyes seemed to hold entire worlds. What started as a simple act of kindness—paying for her bus...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of Why Am I Still Single? Today’s episode is called Red Light Revelation, and trust me, this one’s a rollercoaster of discovery, denial, and some hard-to-ignore red flags. In this episode, I’m sharing the story of my short-lived romance with Uju, a mysterious and stunning woman I met at a local store. What began as a simple act of kindness on my part, paying for her peak milk to stop a heated argument, qu...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of Why Am I Still Single? Today’s episode is titled Five Star Ride, and let me tell you—this one’s a wild journey. This episode is all about Ebuka, a guy who started as a star employee at Mr. Biggs and then switched things up to become an Uber driver with a gift for making people laugh. What seemed like just another workday took a crazy turn when he picked up a new passenger. From laughter to tragedy, Ebu...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of Why Am I Still Single? Today’s episode is titled Faith or Feelings, and trust me, this one hits close to home. In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most unforgettable relationships of my life—a story of love and faith that pushed me to rethink everything I thought I knew. I fell for Amina, a remarkable Muslim woman, during the End SARS protests. But as our connection grew, so did the realization...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of Why Am I Still Single? Today’s episode is titled Pick 2, Last Card, Check Up, and it's a deep dive into the highs and lows of fame. This week, I'm sharing some wild stories from my DMs, unpacking the good, the bad, and the downright crazy that comes with having a bit of the spotlight. Fame’s a lot like a card game: you’ve got to “Pick Two” carefully—maybe money or peace of mind—and always keep a "Last ...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of "Why Am I Still Single?" Today’s episode is titled TGIF, and it’s all about YOU – my amazing fans! (CheckMates). I’ll be reading some of the incredible emails, messages, comments, and DMs I’ve received from you. Plus, I’ve got some exciting announcements and even bigger giveaways lined up. Think you’ve got what it takes to win a date with me or a brand-new iPhone 15? Then stick around, because two...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of "Why Am I Still Single?" Today’s episode is titled Madam K, a six-part series that dives deep into my wild encounters with older women. Buckle up for Madam K, where I spill the tea on my first-ever sugar mummy experience – or, as some might call it, a cougar adventure. Ever wonder how someone can knock years off their age with just money? You’re about to find out. From how it all started to the w...

Chat with Check Edgar Hey CheckMates, it’s Check Edgar here! Welcome to another episode of "Why Am I Still Single?" Today’s episode is titled 6 Feet Deep, and trust me, this one cuts deep. In this episode, I’m diving into a story I’ve held onto for a long time—one that changed the way I see myself and the power of words. It’s about a time when something I said left scars, not just on others, but on me too. Words can bury you alive, sometimes 6 feet deep, and this episode shows just how true t...

Chat with Check Edgar In this episode of Why Am I Still Single, titled "Chicken Wings," I share a hilarious throwback to my teenage years when a crush rejected me for not being "masculine enough." Fast forward to when I met Chisom, a woman with beauty and brains—but also a fiery temper. Despite our spark, I reveal why I had to walk away. Wondering what "Chicken Wings" has to do with it? Tune in to find out why choosing peace over conflict might be the real reason I'm still single! Support t...

Chat with Check Edgar In this episode, I come to a life-changing realization—maybe my problem of being single isn’t physical, but spiritual. So, I decided it was time to take things up with the Big Guy. That’s right, I spent this episode in deep prayer, asking God to bless me with a girlfriend. From heartfelt pleas to humorous moments, this prayer won’t stop until I get an answer. Will this be the solution to my single life? Tune in to find out! Edgar doesn't lie! Support the show J...